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From the Archives: My Partner's an Addict...Should I Stay?

Laura Season 2 Episode 98

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Before we get started, I wanted to add a quick update to this episode.

When I originally recorded this, I was still in my marriage. Since then, my husband and I have decided to separate.

I still agree that there isn't a single right answer to the question, "Should I stay?" Each person has to decide what they need to feel safe, healthy, and at peace.

What has become even clearer to me over time is the importance of emotional sobriety and personal boundaries. Recovery isn't just about abstinence. It's also about growth, honesty, accountability, and a willingness to keep doing the work. And boundaries require us to pay attention to what we're observing and honor our own needs, even when it's difficult.

As you listen, I hope this episode helps you reflect on your own situation with compassion, honesty, and respect for yourself and your healing.

If you have any questions, please let me know. Find more tips and tools in my book. Sending everyone happy and healthy vibes,

Laura

Please note: This podcast is for education only and is not a replacement for therapy. I suggest you seek the help of a trained professional for your specific situation. Here are some resources to help you get started.